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Five Must-Have Spanking Tools For BDSM

A great Bdsm spanking makes for the ultimate punishment, I have gotten a few soft spanking in my 25 years on this earth. Adding spanking to the bedroom introduces BDSM to your sex life. You don’t have to classify yourself as kinky to enjoy spanking. Spanking draws blood to the surface of the skin making it super sensitive.

Bdsm spanking doesn’t have to be painful nor a punishment; it’s a progression from stroking. After all, it’s a sensory play that can be pleasurable when done in the right way. If you are trying spanking for the first time, you must always talk to your partner beforehand. One great thing about spanking is that it creates anticipation especially when your partner is wearing a blindfold.

Here I will introduce you to five BDSM spanking tools for beginners to expert users.

Sportsheets Leather Slut Slapper Paddle For BDSM Spanking

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A spanking paddle is an excellent choice for beginners because they are easy to control. Not only, are they short but, they provide a similar sensation as if you are spanking with your hands. However, each side has a different feeling and are available in different colors and sizes.

A paddle always has a broad surface, which spread that sensation in a wide area and makes each spank less intense for the receiving partner. The Sportsheets Leather Paddle is very flexible and has a split layer. As you are spanking your sub, it will absorb some shock and reduces the sensation your partner feels. This particular paddle has the word Slut cut out; this means it will imprint on your sub skin. The sounds it makes when it touches your partner skin is very satisfying and is an amazing tool for soft spanking.

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Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Flogger

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A flogger is identified by the fronds that touch your sub’s skin when you have whipped his/her with it. Having a flogger for BDSM is great when you want to have a little versatility with your play. You can use them for a delicate tickle of the skin, soft spanking, stroking over sensitive areas or providing a sharp sting. Great for sensory play the Bondage Boutique gives you the feeling of leather without the headache of caring for leather toys.

Great for beginners and experienced users alike, it provides you with the sensation of whipping without being too harsh. The sounds are very satisfying since it gives you the sound of whipping without the bruises, (according to the intensity of the lash). Bottom line, a fantastic product with a fabulous price.

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Bondage Boutique Slim Leather Riding Crop

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A riding crop is a popular tool and is a must-have for every bondage toy box. This tool is excellent for experience parties, and if your sub has a higher tolerance for pain, and the paddle or the flogger just doesn’t cut it. What so great about the crop is a little “flick of the wrist” provides a sweet sting. Slide in a ponytail butt plug and indulge in pony play as this is a perfect choice.

This riding crop is durable, and if you enjoy the red marks after a pleasurable spanking, you’re in luck. The leather is flexible and has a sting with every severe whipping. Great for bondage and punishment especially when your sub gets out of line. Overall, a sturdy riding crop that surpasses all of its competitors in quality and intensity.

Buy the Bondage Boutique Slim Leather Riding Crop.

Fetish Fantasy Extreme Insane Cane

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A cane might not look like much but, A Dom uses it for advance spanking only since it provides a sharper sting than any of the toys, I mention above. It is like spanking with a stick because of its narrow surface that concentrates all that spank in a thin area of the skin. This Fetish Fantasy is quite flexible, but there are some that are more rigid and may leave a bruise.

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Fetish Fantasy 6 Foot Advanced Leather Bullwhip

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Firstly, a whip has a thick handle which makes it great for gripping. With a nut to the end that stops it from slipping out of your partner’s hand, this whip is very flexible and narrow. Great for both advance submissive and dominant. The Dom must have experience with whipping because it can hurt your sub, and he/she puts their trust in you.

The Fetish Fantasy Leather Bullwhip is a step above floggers, paddles and riding crop, it an extreme BDSM spanking tool and packs a punch. Some Subs can only handle about five lashes with this bullwhip. This is a punishment tool for BDSM lovers. The leather is sturdy and will last you years; the loop ensures that you don’t launch the whip too far across the room when whipping your partner — all in all, a fantastic bullwhip that stings the skin and for absolute punishment.

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A spanking starts from a light tickle to an intense spank in BDSM; it is a pleasurable experience for both dominant and submissive alike. You can purchase all these lovely toys for your bondage toy box encase you want a variation in sensation.

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