How To Bondage? Top Restraints For BDSM

There are many ways to restrain your Sub wrist, and you don’t need a product to do so. However, Bdsm restraints are exciting and provide lots of fun to a scene. There are loads of accessories to choose, from the iconic leather arms restraints to fluffy hands cuff and the list goes on. For this post, I’ll focus on restraints that bind more than your wrist.

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How To Choose BDSM Bondage Restraints

There are three main arm restraints you can use in a scene; these include leather cuffs, handcuffs, and ropes. Leather cuffs are comfortable so the submissive can focus on pleasure rather than pain. Similarly, they are quick and easy to put on and take off encase the dominant want to change scene or position.

When you are going to buy cuffs, you’ll want them tight but not too snug to cut out the subs’ circulation. Velcro or buckles work for easier strapping also, padding is suitable for comfort and prevents rubbing of the cuffs against the skin.

If you need to clean your leather restraints, you can use soap and water or any leather soap you have. You don’t want to get the cuffs too wet since too much water damages leather. Make sure they are dry before storage.

DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraint

 Wrist to Thigh Restraint

If you are looking to limit your subs’ movement, then this is a perfect choice. The DOMINIX Deluxe are not as padded as other wrist restraints but, they are very comfortable. Since they don’t have the Velcro straps, they are widely used by persons comfortable to bondage play. The buckles are sturdy, and the adjustable sizes ensure that your subs’ doesn’t wiggle out. Overall, an amazing secure restraint.

Pros

  • Sturdy buckles.
  • Easy to use.
  • Comfortable to wear.

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Bondage Boutique Black Rose Restraints Harness

Black Rose Restraints Harness

The wrist straps are adjustable to fit any size with two cuffs that can be connected. This makes for comfortable wear and doesn’t hurt your subs’ shoulder blade.

Your submissive can wear the Black Rose when he/she uses this restraint in a sit-up position, but your Sub hands may get tired and pull on his/her collar. Your sub can wear these restraints to the front or the rear according to the scene. Customers complain about the stiffness of the buckles, but this will soften up after regular use.

Another reason to buy this product is- the cuffs and collar comes separately for times when you want to start with the collar and cuffs then move on to the harness. This BDSM restraint is excellent for beginners and experts alike. It makes restraining you Sub quick and easy and it’s a fantastic purchase.

Pros

  • Detachable parts.
  • Beginner’s friendly.
  • You can use the harness with other cuffs and collars.

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Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Hogtie Set/BDSM Restraints

Faux Snakeskin Hogtie Set

It’s far from the traditional black restraints and for people who don’t like the feeling of things around their neck. Again, great for experience partners because of the buckles, a beginner may gravitate to the comfortable Velcro straps.

Like the Black Rose, the cuffs are detachable and can be worn with anything with an O ring. When buying restraints for the wrist the ones with the clips are convenient since it makes small breaks as simple as unclipping the cuff from the harness.

The color is more of a wine red and matches great with any sexy outfit you are wearing. The cuffs are thick and would not stop your subs circulation and are comfortable to wear.

Pros

  • It can combine with other accessories.
  • Pretty color.

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Purple Reins Beginners Restraint Harness/BDSM Restraints

Purple restraint

Similar to the Black Rose your sub can wear the Purple Rain to the front and the back, which gives you the option to customize the position you play in. It binds your sub’s to the neck and the wrist, but the small strap around the waist keeps his/her hands close to the body.

Additionally, the O rings from the harness allow you to alter the position of the cuffs. The Velcro straps give the subs’ peace of mind since it is easy to remove incase of accidents. The cuffs are detachable and padded for maximum comfort and do not dig into the skin. They are amazing for newbies and makes a great addition to your toy box.

Pros

  • Versatile.
  • Purple.
  • Padded.

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Bondage Boutique Leather Wrist to Collar Restraint

leather restraints

This wrist to collar is another black sexy restraint with detachable pieces and provides a great bondage play for beginners. Some customers complain of the small collar size and were not comfortable for persons with a larger neck. Also, the cuffs are on the thin side and are not padded like the Purple Rain.

This restraint may be a little uncomfortable when worn for a long time. This BDSM restraint is sturdy and will last you years. Like, most of the restraints I mentioned above you can wear these several ways including the position that is a feature in the picture. Overall, it’s a beautiful leather restraint that is both beginners and experience friendly.

Pros

  • Good Price.
  • Detachable.
  • Easy to use.

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Bondage Boutique Soft Wrist-to-Thigh Cuffs

hands restraints

Even though there are straps around the legs, it doesn’t restrain your legs only your arms and keep them close to your side. This is a great example of a restraint that doesn’t involve the neck.

It is also exceptional for any sex position and will not restrict too much of your body movement. The material is of excellent quality and doesn’t damage the skin. I will not recommend this for anyone with a large build since the thigh strap is a bit on the smaller size.

The soft strap binds your partner without being too harsh on them.

Pro

  • Easy to use.
  • Great for soft bondage.

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Restraints are a great way to introduce soft BDSM to the bedroom. All the arm restraints I mention above, are easy to use and safe, once you follow the instructions.

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