How To Use A Dildo? And The Top Picks

If you are using a dildo for the first time, it’s a good idea to become arouse first before you play. Many people like to watch pornography, read erotica, use their fingers or vibrators to turn them on.

Once you are aroused, you can then insert the tip of the dildo into your vagina or if you are doing anal play read my other post Prostate Sex Toys where I wrote a step to step guide for back door fun. For women if you need an extra help lube is our best friend!

A Dildo is a versatile sex toy; they are not only for internal use. You can stimulate your clitoris, or for oral sex, it really depends on the person using it.

When you think of a dildo, the first thing that comes to mind is “She” but, men also use dildos, and it’s fantastic for Prostate stimulation and getting ready for boyfriend play.

How To Use A Dildo?

Position

When inserting a dildo, you can either lie on your back and slide it in. Dildos with a suction cup stick to your bathroom wall for solo play or your bedroom so you can take it doggy style again it’s up to you.

Apply Lubrication

Always apply lube before inserting a dildo once you are aroused you don’t need as much lube when inserting in your vagina. However, when using an anal dildo, lubrication is a must. Also, don’t use silicone-based lube on silicone toys and reapply when necessary.

Which Size and Style?

Typically, you’ll want to start with a regular size dildo especially if you are using them for the first time. There are many colors and materials to choose from these include silicone, glass, metal, and wood.

Temperature Play with Glass And Steel Toys

This means changing the temperature of the toy; you can do this with glass and steel toys. In my experience when I store my glass dildos, sometimes it’s cold. I solve this problem by placing it in a bowl of warm water for about 10 minutes. Temperature play is very pleasurable especially when you run a cold dildo across your nipples.

If you are feeling for cold play same procedure apply for the warm water just in ice water. Make sure you check the temperature on your hand first before you slide the toy inside you. Never put your toys in the microwave or the oven.

Neon Slim 7 Realistic Dildo

How To Use A Dildo

The neon is long and slim and is perfect for beginners; the tapered head makes it easy to insert. The suction cup base sticks on any hard surfaces. Furthermore, the curves stimulate a woman G-spot and a men Prostate. Some customers complain about the chemical smell but, washing the dildo with soap, and warm water will remove the scent.

The realistic veins add extra pleasure; the wide-based makes the neon compatible with strap-ons. It is not a girthy dildo, but it makes up in length, and the ladies who love lengthy dicks will sure enjoy the neon slim.

Why buy this product?

  • Reasonable price.
  • Great length.
  • Hits the G-spot.
  • Curve to your body.

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8 Inch All-American Whopper Dong

Dildo

Ladies if you’re like me, and appreciate the balls on your dildo then, I know you’ll love this toy. I am impressed by how realistic this dildo looks and feel similar to the real thing. It’s a flexible penis that is curved so ladies, it hits the G-spot and men, this dildo stimulates the prostate. It’s a bit big for beginners; however, with lube anything is possible.

The head of the dildo is very defined compared to the neon slim and is excellent for oral play since you can practice deep-troating. Cleaning is straight-forward wash with warm soapy water or anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner.

Why buy this product?

  • Realistic Feel.
  • Strong Suction cup.
  • Really soft.

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Adam’s True Feel Dildo

Realistic dildo

The best dildos are the ones with the realistic look and feel, and the Adam True Feel didn’t disappoint. It’s not the largest penis, but it gets the job done; it’s about 5-5 inches of insertable shaft. However, it stands 7 inches tall and has these softballs similar to the All America Whopper Dong. You can travel with it, or with the strong suction cup makes it easy to store in the bathroom.

If you are looking for a fuller feel, then this is not the dick for you because buyers complain of its small size. Try the All American, it’s a better fit.

Why buy this product?

  • Great for clitoris play.
  • Realistic feel.
  • Pleasurable.

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Crystal Heart Wavy Glass Dildo

Glass Dildo

The Crystal Heart is a hefty glass toy; this is not a bad thing since many people enjoy heavy toys. It came with a hard plastic sleeve you can use as a case however, this doesn’t protect the glass heart. It a beautiful piece for both anal and vaginal play. Because of the stout heart, this toy is top heavy. 

It is a quality made toy, and if you drop this dildo, it’s not likely to break like other glass toys. Also, it’s adorable and girly and is excellent for temperature play.

Why buy this product?

  • Temperature Play.
  • Super durable.
  • Girly.

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Lelo GIGI 2

Lelo dildo

The GiGi 2 is one of Lelo’s bestsellers and is 100% more powerful than the Lelo 1 and is waterproof. It has a flattered tip to stimulate your G spot with near to silent vibrations which, comes in handy when you are living with a roommate.

This toy has an eight vibrating setting and is rechargeable and holds up to four hours of charge as well as great for travel. This gives you peace of mind because this sex toy has a one-year warranty. Plus, if your toy doesn’t last you ten years it entitles you to 50% off your next purchase. Holding the GiGi 2 upsides down is a fantastic clitoris massager.

Why buy this product?

  • Last you years.
  • 1 year warranty.
  • Versatile.

Wrapping Up

Using a dildo is quite pleasurable when you are aroused, lubed up and your vaginal or anal muscles are relaxed. If you are using a dildo for the first time and looking for a realistic feel, I would recommend that you use the Adam true feel or the neon slim. Similarly, the Lelo GiGi is a popular choice because they are beginner friendly, vibrates and lasts years.

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