Firstly, before you continue to read this post, let’s make this clear- an alpha male is not one of those arrogant assholes who feel, they own the world. That’s not an alpha male, and if you are looking to be that idiot- check another website.
You’ll need to know what an alpha male is before you become that type of guy. So, what defines an alpha male? The alpha male is a leader; the one everyone turns to for help, which every man wants to be and every woman wants to date.
He doesn’t take sh**t from anyone; similarly, no one gives him sh**t. He’s charming, and everyone wants to spend time with. When he walks in the room, his presence is known by everyone. He defends his pack to the end, and he takes charge.
In other words, an alpha is someone you strive to be.
What are the traits of an alpha male?
- Take charge and become a leader.
- Develop confidence.
- Act powerful, with masculine body language.
- Delegate– An alpha male works great with others and knows, how to get people to work alongside him.
- Stay Calm– You want to be someone who others look up to when there are emergencies.
- Control his emotions– An alpha male always controls his emotions, especially in a bad situation. He will never lose his cool, and always choose logic over his feelings.
- An alpha male is always motivated.
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Have Confidence In Yourself Without Being Arrogant.
The traits an alpha male has is confident that’s why he gets the girl. This what makes him appealing to everyone around him. His confidence gets him the promotion instead of you.
If you are not confident right now don’t fake it since you it won’t be genuine. If for some reason, you appear to fool the people around you- this is not enough to have an alpha status. Plus, you wouldn’t be happy with yourself.
With that said, confidence is not something you can fix with medication. It involves how you feel about yourself and your accomplishments.
The more you work on yourself, the better you’ll feel.
A few men are born with the traits of an alpha male. The rest of us has to gain those traits from scratch.
How can you achieve confidence by improving yourself? So, you can feel good about yourself. For example; if you are embarrassed by your job, because your job doesn’t make you feel masculine enough, or you haven’t gotten the promotion you deserve.
Whatever the reason that makes you feel that way about your occupation. Fix it. Be relentless and find the right career that will make you adapt self-satisfaction in every area of your life.
Be an Alpha And Get the Girl
Having a great deal of confidence gets the girl. Believe it or not, she senses it and wants it. You don’t have to be in a high position in life at this moment. But, once you have set goals and aspirations for your life, you’re going somewhere.
Don’t be afraid of rejections, not every woman will notice your potential and that’s fine. So, if you decided to talk to a beautiful woman, and she rejects you before you can ask for her number,
So what? Dust off yourself and try again. An alpha male wouldn’t stay in his comfort zone. He’ll go beyond his boundaries and meet the woman of his dreams. And trust me, she does exist.
An alpha male is not desperate, nor is afraid of a strong woman. Instead of lowering his woman self-esteem to feel good about himself, he raises her. He’s not scared of her successful career, after all, that’s one of the things he finds attractive about her.
Because she knows that he’s there for her, she’ll love and respect him even more.
Create The Body Of An Alpha Male
If you are proud of your body and are confident in the way that you look, “that’s great.” But, if you don’t, and wants that killer abs then go for it.
Your body is a reflection of how you feel on the inside. That’s why you must take pride in the way you look.
Practice good grooming habits; this means making sure your hair is trim, or you have a shower before leaving the house. After all, if you don’t look like someone who demands respect, how will you achieve it.
Get yourself in the habit of exercise; this means discipline and routine. Whether it’s getting up 5.00am to hit the gym or home exercise -stick with it. Set goals and celebrate when you have reached new milestones.
In Your Career
An alpha male is a natural born leader; he has worked hard to get the promotion. You don’t have to be a CEO of a company or a doctor but, someone who is satisfied with his profession and always pushes the limits.
Whether he’s a writer or a teacher, to an alpha male leadership comes naturally. This means having confidence in yourself and aspiring confidence in others.
Always be mindful of others needs, and use your new powers and responsibilities bestowed on you, to win new customers and grab opportunities.
Create the Lifestyle
No one is going to give you the lifestyle you want, you’ll have to go and take it yourself. Take a risk and don’t be afraid to fail, because an alpha male doesn’t allow fear of failure to stand in their way.
If the lifestyle he wants, means he has to drop everything and start over, don’t let that fear stand in your way.
Don’t let other people fear, stop you from achieving your goal. They will tell you that it’s a bad idea or it’s impossible to do. Once you believe it’s possible, then it is, an alpha knows between naysayers and people who give constructive advice.
Become An Alpha Today
Becoming an alpha male is not only for the rich; you don’t need to have a particular hair or eye color to become one. Anyone can be an alpha male; just read the steps and, get up right now. Set your goals, make plans and, change your thinking.
What are you waiting for? Become the person you have been dreaming of becoming.
You can get the job, the girl, and the lifestyle- by changing yourself. The only person who is standing between your dream life is yourself.