What Is Pegging? And How To Prepare For Pegging?

Pegging, in a nutshell, is when a woman has anal sex with her male partner using a strap-on. This sexual act allows a woman to feel dominant and switch up things in the bedroom. The Pegging experience has been around for quite a while and is a popular sexual act amongst couples.

So, What are the top five must-haves your pegging experience? Well, one- you must have a strap-on, a flared based dildo, anal lube, condoms, and an anal douche since preparing for pegging makes this experience very comfortable.

Why You Should Prepare for Pegging?

Who wants to see poop while having anal sex? No one, that why it is so crucial to prep before pegging. If you are clean down there, you’ll feel comfortable which makes your muscles relaxed as well as your mind — making pegging an enjoyable experience for you and your partner.

Performing an anal douche about an hour before you and your partner have anal sex, cleans up the anus for pegging -it also reduces the chance of poop accidents. You can find douches in almost every sex toys sites and a variety to choose; from mild to deep cleaning.

Basic Anal Douche The slim nozzle makes insertion easy, and it’s simple to use. 

Lovehoney Deluxe Anal Douche Kit  If you don’t like the Basic douche, you can try the Lovehoney deluxe. For some, the added attachment makes insertion with lube easier.

Clean Stream Enema set Excellent for deep cleaning in the shower, it’s easy to insert and, gets the job done.

Picking The Perfect Strap-on For Your Pegging Experience

Strap on with dildo

Choosing the perfect strap-on is different for everyone; some hate too many straps while others prefer a customizable strap-on. It depends on what makes you feel sexy and comfortable.

 If you are buying a strap on for the first time, don’t go for an expensive choice since you are new to pegging and most likely you’ll be buying a second one soon.

My favorite is a strap-on kit since you can swap out dildos especially when you want to start small and move up to a large dildo. You can also choose a strapless strap-on; basically, it looks similar to a double-sided dildo which provides stimulation for you and your partner. 

UPRIZE Universal Strap-On Harness If you are looking for a sturdy strap-on, then the Uprize is a great choice. It doesn’t come with extra O rings, and it does not include the dildo.

Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness BriefsWith No straps this Unisex strap-on is comfortable to wear.

BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Dildos Similar, to the Uprize but with two extra dildos and two additional O rings.

Read my post on Five best strap-ons for more information.

Picking A Strap-on Dildo

A great strap-on dildo is one that has a curved shaft for prostate stimulation and a wide-based to keep in place using the O ring, during pegging. There is a wide range of sizes, textures, colors and for some extra fun add squirting dildos. Some strap-on kits include the dildo in the price, but others don’t, if you are looking for strap-on dildos check out our favorites:

Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Suction Cup Dildo– It’s a fantastic dildo because it’s curved for prostate stimulation.

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Multicolored Silicone Dildo Is a realistic dildo and has a super soft texture. The colors are beautiful and brighten up your strap-on. Its head is very pronounced. Luxe is slightly larger than the Lovehoney Slimline dildo however, it’s a nice length for intermediate users.

Picking Anal Lube For Pegging

You must use a lubricant when you are pegging that’s because unlike the vagina the anus does not self lube. So you’ll have to give your anus, a helping hand to make things comfortable and reduce the chances of hurting your partner. There are lubes that is specifically for anal play, because they are thick, long-lasting, and are more cushion than the regular lube.

Sliquid Sassy Water-Based Anal Lubricant– It’s all natural and glycerin and paraben free. What makes this great your pegging experience? Its thick formula that looks similar to gel.

Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant– This water-based lube is not sticky and last long for pegging. Washing off is quicker compared to other lube and doesn’t stain the sheets.

Pjur Back Door Silicone Anal Lubricant There is always room in your toy box for some silicone lube. This lube is thicker than water-based and gives you that extra cushion for pegging. Remember not to use silicone lube with silicone toys and condoms.

Condoms for Your Pegging Experience

condom for pegging

You don’t have to use a condom for pegging, however using one adds that little extra protection. Condoms are not only used to prevent STDs or pregnancy but can protect you from bacteria from dildos that can’t be boiled.

Also, for unplanned pegging, it makes cleanup easier if the strap-on dildo comes in contact with poop. Remove the condom from the dildo and wash with warm water and antibacterial toy cleaner when things get messy.

GLYDE Ultra Thin Premium Condoms.

Durex Performax Intense Condoms.

LIfeStyles ULTRA THIN Condoms.

Trying something new in the bedroom is always nerve-wracking but, if you prep for pegging you will eliminate some fear you’ll have before trying it out. Pegging is very pleasurable for both partners, since there are toys to help the woman reach climax and the strap-on stimulate the man prostrate. If you are trying pegging for the first time ensure that you have each item mentioned above for a safe pegging experience.

Read: What is Pegging?

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